Why this work — and not some other work.
I grew up in a family impacted by addiction and generational trauma. I know what it feels like to love someone whose disease is taking them somewhere you cannot follow, and I know what it feels like to be the person everyone in the family is trying to protect. That experience shapes how I show up for every family I work with.
I do not believe in shame as a clinical tool. I do not believe families cause addiction, and I do not believe a single dramatic conversation usually fixes it. I believe that change comes from a steadier place — from families who have done their own work, from clear and lovingly held boundaries, and from the long, patient relationship between a professional and the people doing the work.